Oh my God

Just reading through my mails and a friend of mine has just been diagnosed, again, with breast cancer. She declined herceptin and tamoxifen, the things which help prevent it from coming back, and now she has it back - in the same breast, in almost exactly the same place. Says she is having surgery on the 16th. Think she had a lympectomy before, this must be a mastectomy. Writing this before I phone her.